The End of the Belief in Separation

How the belief in separation has defined an era of the way our organisations and institutions and their leaders operate in our world

 

What I’ve decided today is that I need to have a crack at making an impact on individual and collective leadership. I’m calling this the “New Beginning Series” but it’s really about offering an alternative to how things have been. 

The over-aching theme is moving away from separation towards recognising the connection of all things to each other. And what if we were to rewrite the business school rules from that premise?

Many brilliant people have already done the work of naming the meta-crisis:  the tangle of interconnected problems sitting underneath so much of what’s happening in the world right now. That’s not what I’m trying to add to. What I want to start is the conversation about what the solution might look like, and what our responsibility is within it — both individually, as leaders, and collectively, as institutions.

Two core principles of where we are headed: unity and compassion. Try to recognise the opposing forces of division and fear in your own life. Each conscious decision leads us towards one path or the other. 
 
What do I mean by the end of the belief in separation?

Separation is the philosophical and practical belief that matter precedes energy, and that we live in a material universe as separate units. An alternative is unity: that all things emanate from a unified field and are thus connected — which allows us to explain things the material view can’t. Quantum mechanics talks about entanglement, where they’ve been able to measure atoms which aren’t physically co-located  and can still relate to one another.

I remember at business school, in my business strategy subject, they called it chaos theory. It was the alternative to the more mechanistic view of change — the idea that you could define the outcome, conduct a gap analysis, and change one at a time, and it would all fall into place. The way chaos theory was explained to me then was that if a bird flapped its wings in China, it could affect an earthquake in San Francisco. It encouraged non-linear thinking, an adaptive view of strategy, and letting go of the assumption that the future could be predicted. That was around the year 2000. Since then we’ve become an even more integrated, more polarised, and less predictable society. 

Reflect within, and the truth emerges over time that we are individual expressions of a larger system. Essentially our world has a natural systemic balance which we are only one part of. It is ecosystemic in nature, not linear and separate. Thus any time we act out of self-interest to maximise a gain in one area, it will create conditions or consequences, often unintended. The consequences themselves often create another problem, which perpetuates the cycle. For example the whole industry built around climate challenges, which is largely using the same mechanisms which created the problem in the first place. 
 
Why is it important we lead differently ? 
 
Three things in particular have changed, leading to a necessary shift in how we lead our organisations and institutions:
  • We’ve moved from information scarcity to information overload — where once something on the other side of the planet would never reach us, now we see the footage within minutes.
  • Coordination used to be expensive; not just coordination and collaboration but execution is easier, enabled by technology and tools like AI that bring ideas to life quickly.
  • In a world that was reasonably disconnected, consequence was distant: a change in trade policy or a tariff in one country used to touch only part of the economy, whereas now everyone is economically, socially and culturally reliant on and integrated with everyone else.
 
Today I’m sharing some initial thoughts around:
  • Our individual responsibility, as leaders, in everyday decisions
  • Our collective responsibility, within organisations and institutions
 
And look for more to come on this topic over time . 
 
What this means for our organisations and institutions 

The first principle for organisations is to recognise they are part of a natural system, rather than automatically aiming to be at the top of a material hierarchy. An organisation with a profit motive and no conscience is like an apex predator — it consumes everything in pursuit of more return, without factoring in the cost of what that consumption does to the broader, often unintended, collective. That narrowness of goal, without a recognition of broader responsibility, is something society is now having to reckon with. Governments alone can’t be responsible for regulating it. I believe our leaders – especially this new generation – can make that jump in my lifetime. 

Plenty of organisations and institutions are already working in this space: B Corp, the balanced scorecard, the UN Sustainable Development Goals. But it’s time the shift came from within the people who work inside these institutions, not from outside regulation or encouragement. I believe this has to be a bottoms-up change that happens within people because the truth is that if this becomes another idea or a system like communism or socialism, that’s just another label that people can exploit for their own personal gain.

What you can do as an individual leader

Firstly, what inhibits leadership in this area. Many people feel that systemic incentives work against prosocial, collective decision-making. ie. if everyone else is behaving this way, then what’s the point? or why bother? In practice, this perpetuates decisions which knowingly create negative collective or community consequences, but which maximise dominance in a market or competitive position. Many of these decisions are often culturally rewarded — implicitly, and often explicitly.

The single biggest thing you can do is notice, in every moment, how many of your decisions are made out of fear — fear of not being successful, of losing your job, of the consequences, of your boss. That’s the place to start. Fear undermines accountability, responsibility and authenticity. The aim is to make the decision instead from compassion and awareness — awareness of consequence, and of what’s right, rather than a fear of getting it wrong, of covering yourself, or of messing up.  If right now that feels hard, I am here to support you (as are many others). It is time to find your heart and voice. 
 
I would love to hear from you
  • I’d love to hear your comments or thoughts on what I’ve discussed
  • My hope is to live in a time where I can support leaders and teams to make this change, for their own good and for the good of our communities. 
  • But this isn’t about me. It’s about you, and the decisions you make every day.

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